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    ABH092513
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    August 27, 2014 at 7:55 pm #60264
    Confused

    Okay so recently I’ve been dating a girl. I’m 16 and she’s a year younger. The way we met is a little weird so I’m not going to share. She lives around where my dad lives and I lived with my mom which was two hours away. I decided I wanted a change, and ended up moving here. My girlfriend and I go to the same school and I enjoy the time I spend with her, inside of school and out. However, it is hard for me to stay in a relationship because I get stressed, guilty, and anxious. To expand on that, I have anxiety that I used to take medicine for. I also get a multitude of random thoughts that make me feel guilty and part of my anxiety is OCD, so these thoughts are persistent. Recently, I started constantly thinking about a girl in my last period class, and she’s attractive, but I’ve never talked to her and it’s not like a happy thought about us having a future. It’s her name and face in my head bugging me and making me feel guilty. I’m not a guy that cheats at all but my thoughts get


    ABH092513
    Participant
    August 27, 2014 at 8:03 pm #60265

    Negative to the point to where I have what if thoughts about that. It happens with all my relationships. In my last one the same exact thing happened and after me and my girlfriend had broke up, I didn’t even try to pursue the girl I had been thinking about or feel the need to? So what is my problem? My girlfriend and I are taking a break just because I don’t feel morally right kissing a girl and etc. While having these thoughts. Also thinking about this has got me thinking about another girl that I used to like and we used to have a thing back at my moms. However, it didn’t work out and now I’m scared I like her again or something, but if I made a list of “What I like,” “What I don’t like,” about my girlfriend and these two girls I know that my girlfriend would win hands down. I already did it once. I know this may sound stupid for me to worry about at my age but whether my current girlfriend and I went on to get married or not, these thoughts would affect all of my future


    ABH092513
    Participant
    August 28, 2014 at 8:45 am #60266

    Relationships, so I really feel the need to solve them now… Thank you