Confused about her intentions…

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Confused about her intentions…

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    ZLink9015
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    July 11, 2015 at 2:12 pm #82652
    Confused about her intentions…

    Hey All,

    So I’m in a bit of a tricky situation. Due to the fact that the girl I am interested is also my coworker. I want to thread carefully.
    So she’s pretty flirtatious, but signs that she has given me has been. Asked if I had a gf, touching, Laughing at my jokes, sometimes pretty bad ones.
    Says she hates me, quite often when I say something super corny. Call me by a misspelled name(instead of Tom she calls me Tum on purpose)
    She’s asked me to hang out a few times, but every time its been in front of other coworkers so I played it off. Lately she has been sharing her terrible dating experience with us, which irks me just a bit.

    I’ve tried to ask her out 2 times in the past, but before I can ask, she does something that deflates my bubble. First was saying she loved a guy. And 2nd was when she thought I was saying something about us (her and myself) (IE: we are going to the movies, she goes no, I’m going with X not you)

    Any advices\opinion would be appreciated.

    Thanks
    -Z


    bobjohnson5667
    Participant
    July 11, 2015 at 5:45 pm #82663

    shes flirting with you from the sounds of it


    CM2014
    Participant
    July 11, 2015 at 7:58 pm #82665

    It sounds like she’s flirting but, I can understand your dilemma she’s kind of sending mixed signals. I’d say your best bet is just to ask her bluntly. Wait until it’s just you and her though that way no one is put on the spot.


    csilberman
    Participant
    July 12, 2015 at 5:00 pm #82673

    Sounds like flirting too. I would seek other options.


    cookie86
    Participant
    July 13, 2015 at 8:06 am #82680

    Just talk to her straight up find out her intentions


    leesee27
    Participant
    July 13, 2015 at 8:14 am #82654

    She seems like she just might be a flirt by nature. I laugh and say I hate you to the guy I’m seeing when he says something corny too, so it is flirtatious. However, most women won’t complain about terrible dates with someone they’re interested in dating you. Perhaps she sees you as a friend, and wants a mans advice. I’d draw back and see if she pursues you more.


    Allie
    Participant
    July 13, 2015 at 5:30 pm #82726

    Exercise caution.