Confused about what is happening

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Confused about what is happening

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    garfield82
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    October 11, 2015 at 8:43 pm #86780
    Confused about what is happening

    I met a guy after mutual liking on Tinder. So far we have had 4 dates (all within a week). I think it has been going well and on the 4th I had him round to mine to watch a film and give us some privacy. That wasn’t an invite for sex, far from it as I really feel like there is something there with this guy. We have arranged a 5th date and I’m really looking forward to both that and getting to spend time with him and further getting to know him. We have pretty much been texting on and off all the time since we started speaking and met which I think is good but also I am trying not to reply/text as much or quickly as we need time apart too. I noticed tonight that rather than reply to me after he had been out with friends, he had been back on Tinder before texting me (I had went on as I had a notification and wanted to clear it). While I know we are only 4 dates in, why would he have done that instead of texting me to see how I was and am I just reading too much into it?