confused by his response help me confirm what he really means

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confused by his response help me confirm what he really means

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    DaphneJ
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    October 11, 2017 at 7:08 pm #152520
    confused by his response help me confirm what he really means

    told a guy I liked how I felt and my intentions. his first response was “Hey I’m really sorry I am just focusing on me right, I’ve had a rough last couple of months please dont take it personally.” which i took him a nicely saying I dont want to date you. I told him i understood and i respected his reason and thanked him for being honest. He agreed to be friends and then later , the topic had completely been changed, he sent this text” i just need time thanks for understanding, I’ve got a good deal at this new job so hopefully it works out. I view the 2nd statement as him saying I like you and i want to date you but i need time so wait for me and I will date you when I am ready. why would he, in my opinion, change his stance on everything, He never really said how he felt about me, skated around his feelings, so is he telling me that he has an interest in me but needs time to rebuild his life or is he not interested in me romantically at all?


    blondygirl13
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    October 11, 2017 at 8:01 pm #152523

    Just give him plenty of space girl to be honest , time will tell if he the one for you . Don’t show to much interest bc he might pull away . A real man will be there and will want a relationship .