Confused by new man in my life

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Confused by new man in my life

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    cocoa61
    Participant
    April 23, 2013 at 10:20 pm #29478
    Confused by new man in my life

    I have been dating a guy for 2 months. We have tons of things in common and he has initiated all the plans. He invited me on a bike trip with his riding buddies 2 months into the future, made lots of comments about future things to do together this summer, and invited me to his parents house for Easter dinner. Last time I saw him, everything seemed just fine. I got a couple text messages from him that week, and then just out of the blue, he stopped calling and texting. I thought he was really into me and I don’t know what happened. It’s like he doesn’t want to speak to me or see me again. I haven’t specifically asked him, as I don’t want to sound clingy. I don’t know whether I should call him and initiate a conversation about what’s going on, or just sit back and wait to hear from him again. We had a small issue when we first started dating and he was open with me about something that bothered him and I let him know how much I appreciated him sharing that and we worked through the problem. I feel like he is pulling away, and I don’t want to push him away. Any suggestions on what I should do?

    abigail
    abigail
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    May 13, 2013 at 6:45 pm #31095

    Try to make plans with him soon and see if he wants to see you. Maybe something that you two normally do so it doesn’t seem too out of the blue. If he’s upset about that first problem you two discussed, you’ll only find out once you get a chance to talk to him in person.