Confused..I need advice!


Confused..I need advice!

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    November 18, 2014 at 6:08 pm #67741
    Confused..I need advice!

    So I like this guy, and he likes me but I’m not sure he knows I like him. But, he flirts with a lot of girls and I’m not sure if he’s hooking up with a bunch of girls or if he is just trying to make me jealous. He talks to me and jokes around with me, but I feel like he does this with a different girl everyday. We haven’t spoke as much (we have math together) but we make eye contact and it just feels awkward now. Not sure what to do, but I do want to get closer to him without throwing myself at him or seeming desperate. If he is just a player, I don’t want him to think I’m easy or anything.

    Please give me any advice! I know it’s probably not smart to try to date a player, but we have a lot of chemistry and I want him to know I like him for sure, so maybe he won’t flirt with so many girls!


    November 18, 2014 at 10:11 pm #67750

    just go for it. when you care about him you shouldn’t care if someone thinks you’re easy to get. just go for it and see how he responds.

    November 18, 2014 at 11:08 pm #67754

    Be honest as you can. Let him know your interested and your intention is not to jump too far ahead, but that you like him enough to talk about dating.

    November 20, 2014 at 3:14 pm #67835

    From personal experience with someone like that, I would say wait until you find someone who shows only interest in you, because flirting with lots of girls is a bad sign… :/ Shows he can interchange one for the other easily!

    November 20, 2014 at 3:58 pm #67839

    Just be honest with him.