Confused! Who do I choose?

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Confused! Who do I choose?

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    tofu
    tofu
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    February 11, 2014 at 6:00 am #47560
    Confused! Who do I choose?

    I began growing interested in a guy I met in my town a few months ago. The first date we went on, he ended the date with “I’m moving out of the state soon and I’m not looking for anything serious.” A few weeks later, we hung out again, got pretty drunk and next thing you know.. we are spending every single weekend together. Sharing personal stories, going out together and sleeping together. This has been going on for over 1.5 months now and I know. It seems so real. I feel like he might not be ready to settle even though he shows me all of the time. Here comes the complicated part. We never text and rarely talk on the weekdays. I just want something serious, but as much as it seems reassuring to me on the weekends about what we have going on, it doesn’t seem to be happening. on the other hand, some1 else has grown interest in me and Im starting to really like him, but bez i’m holding on to the hope of this 1st guy, i’m ditching the 2nd guy who seems to really care about me.

    kingkoti
    kingkoti
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    February 13, 2014 at 12:15 am #47679

    Scene 1: You choose the guy who doesn’t care. Good.

    Scene 2: You choose the guy who cares about you. You’ll still be thinking about the guy who doesn’t care.

    Either ways, although illogical, choose guy 1.


    ChristineMyLove
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    February 15, 2014 at 11:30 pm #47872

    I would go for the second guy. If the first guy doesn’t seem to care that much and doesn’t wanna get into something serious, then he doesn’t seem worth it. You’ll be chasing after him forever, and he won’t do anything about it. The other guy, who is willing to go out for a change, is the best way to end this.


    Gator0284
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    February 17, 2014 at 1:24 am #47887

    Second guy


    unprepared
    Participant
    February 18, 2014 at 5:23 pm #47970

    Second!