Confused with my girlfriend

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Confused with my girlfriend

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    Joe83162
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    November 3, 2015 at 10:33 am #87827
    Confused with my girlfriend

    I have known this girl for eight months. We meet online and became instant friends in August she told me she liked me and I told her I like her back. She has since become my girlfriend. She asked what we were, are we exclusive or relationship I said both and she was cool with. We talk everyday and send photos and videos of our lives. We have also exchanged more intimate photos as well. I told her I love her and says you too but she is not ready to say it yet which I’m fine with. We have also talked about our future and her daughter which I’m fine with. Im going to see her in the New Years. However she has become distant and gets annoyed by me easily. She says I ask to many questions yet when I say what can do to change that she says I want you to be you. She also told me I need to slow down because we haven’t really met yet. I’m just confused on what to do is she backing off or am I being paranoid.


    Joe83162
    Participant
    November 3, 2015 at 10:59 am #87828

    Plus I’m new to dating online and I find it hard not having that one on one connection, that is why I ask so many questions. I just don’t want to become annoying or scare her off!.


    ihrios
    Participant
    November 12, 2015 at 3:46 am #88332

    Maybe the way she sees it is …what will you guys have left to talk about when you finally meet for the first time. Trust me no one likes those awkward moments of silence. But then again i know if i get annoyed by some one very easily its because some one else has my attention. I cant speak for her tho. I would suggest to give her her space until it comes to the day you meet. I dont mean stop taking to her but if you guys text or communicate every single day give her a chance to miss you .. become busy ..occupy your mind with something else … may not be the best advise but hope it somewhat helps


    JD123
    Participant
    November 16, 2015 at 8:40 am #88455

    personally I’m not sure how anyone can agree on being in a relationship without having met. particularly after 8 months. how do you think things will be when you actually meet regardless of how things are over skype or something? I’m sorry to say this but I’d call it quits and move on.


    Anonymous
    November 27, 2015 at 7:34 am #89049

    Yes, I wanna meet with you. but give me your real picture. thanks


    Anonymous
    December 14, 2015 at 9:13 am #89997

    what?


    Anonymous
    December 14, 2015 at 9:13 am #89998

    We have also talked about our future and her daughter which I’m fine with. Im going to see her in the New Years


    playboy94
    Participant
    January 6, 2016 at 9:11 am #91095
    Reply To: Confused with my girlfriend

    what