Courage

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Courage

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    Lunalu
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    October 4, 2017 at 10:34 pm #151526
    Courage

    Long story short I feel like I’m at my limit like many other times .We broke up before but ended up back together.I learned that I can’t solve my problems by literally running away from him. I’m afraid of how he would be if I break up directly with him. He tends to be aggressive when he is upset and has a slick tonguet.I just don’t know how to go at this. I read that I gotta find the right tuning but time isn’t on my side. I don’t know what to do, because of him I can’t confide or talk to my friends (who despise him already and the feeling is mutual) so I feel stressed and on my own. I have been thinking of breaking up for a few months already and it still is in my head. I’m convinced that it’s that time for real but what kind of steps can I take. I want to drop hints but…we have a big financial issue going on and im the only one who works. I want to end it but still clear up our issues but I know he wouldn’t comply easily. Worse part is…we are suppose to start having a kid soon


    Lunalu
    Participant
    October 4, 2017 at 10:40 pm #151527

    I’m not pregnant
    Also he even makes working difficult for me sometimes cause he has the #1 priority syndrome meaning he comes first over everything. Like logic
    Ex. We get into an argument before I had to go to work and i tell him that we shouldn’t do this but he stated he didnt care.he comes first then my job. The only thing financing us.
    I feel guilty being intimate with him sometimes and saying hollow words of I love you. Only sometimes cause I do mean it but he just gets me in that mood….even now I don’t feel right being next to him and he is currently sleeping next to me. He’d be pretty upset if he saw me writing this. But I really don’t want to make him took like a bad guy I just wanna let something out and let go easy.too many problems in so tired


    Lunalu
    Participant
    October 5, 2017 at 8:52 am #151528

    The thing that makes it difficult the most is how we live together in his parents house and it’s not simple for me to go back to my family. I can’t rely on them for mental support