Crushing on a Guy I knew 20 Years Ago

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Crushing on a Guy I knew 20 Years Ago

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    beebee
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    May 9, 2016 at 4:46 pm #100018
    Crushing on a Guy I knew 20 Years Ago

    So here’s my problem… got back into contact with a guy I went to high school with. He popped up on FB and I wrote him. We actually met up this last week for drinks with his buddy & his wife. My crush, was a bit tipsy, but totally harmless (he’s currently just filed for divorce from his wife). It was fun. He ended up coming back to my house (no hook up happened). We just kissed. He tells me during the make-out session, he doesn’t even know how to date. I’m the second girl he’s ever kissed (his wife/ex is his high school sweetheart). Next day we text and he said he had fun, and that was three days ago. I don’t want to push him as he’s going through sooo much right now. His ex doesn’t want the divorce and he does. He’s a great guy, but am I totally wasting my time? Would it be wrong for me to ask him out again? Or do I have to be patient and just wait this out. Thought I might send him a text that says ” I’d like to see you again, can we make that happen?” Need advice…

    • This topic was modified 1 year, 5 months ago by  beebee.
    kellyharmon25252
    kellyharmon25252
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    May 14, 2016 at 3:56 pm #100411

    You should definitely ask him out

    Stella07
    Stella07
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    May 15, 2016 at 11:12 am #100438

    It kinda sounds like he is rebounding. I would be friends with him for awhile and see what happens but it’s way too soon to initiate him getting into dating again