Date evaluation! Im overthinking and need some perspective

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Date evaluation! Im overthinking and need some perspective

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    Jess1904
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    January 8, 2014 at 10:21 pm #45882
    Date evaluation! Im overthinking and need some perspective

    So I had this date with a girl in one of my classes. We don’t really know each other that well but she wanted to cook dinner for me for the first date. So I get there and its a bit awk in the beginning cuz we don’t know each other that well. But after she invited me to her room to watch a movie (which had extremely inappropriate sex scenes…yes) then I felt her getting closer to me and felt her looking at me sometimes. but nothing happened. Then she taught me some words in french (one of them was “give me a kiss” and another “I will break your face”) which i found funny. but ya nothing happened and when I left I gave her a kiss and asked to hang out again. She said yes and mayb she could cook dinner for me again. Basically I left and I texted her thanks for tonight and that I would’ve kissed her more but i was afraid she couldn’t handle it (little joke). And then she thanked me for coming and said that she was a bit awk because she was nervous and laughed. then she said goodnight.


    Jess1904
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    January 8, 2014 at 10:22 pm #45883

    To lighten the mood I texted her the french phrase she told me of I will break your face and laughed and said goodnight.
    But I texted her 2 days later and she is not responding for 2 days (BTW shes horrible at texting! like she takes forever but never this long) so idk did i mess it upp?? or do you think she’ll still be interested in seeing me again?


    ka69
    Participant
    October 27, 2014 at 11:30 pm #66688

    i don’t think you did anything wrong. it’s human nature to be awkward. and obviously you weren’t the only one feeling that way. just give it a little bit and see how things go. just be yourself and try to relax and just get to know her. if she’s worth it she’ll see past the awkwardness.