Dating a friend of an ex

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Dating a friend of an ex

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    Instinct101
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    November 4, 2014 at 1:00 am #66991
    Dating a friend of an ex

    I dated a girl for 19 months. That finished just shy of 3 years ago. My ex and I had a fwb arrangement for a year up until 3 months ago. When I stopped seeing my ex for sex, it was because she was feeling things for me I just could not feel for her and I have a connection to her semi-estranged friend. I met her friend when we started dating somewhere around 5 years ago. I’ve had a few ‘dates’ with this girl over the last year, nothing physical. Now that it’s been 3 months since I’ve seen the ex, I’m wondering if this week I should make a move to have an official date and/or just go for a kiss? She told me she wants to see me again.

    This is where the “shut up n’ kiss her, kid!” in me shouts against the “Fuggedaboutit!The drama! And she’s probably not interested anyway.” in me. The thing is, I really do think she is interested and I can’t help but project the fear of seriously dating this girl with an excuse that it’s connected to the ex or the friendship between these two women.