Dating advice…


Dating advice…

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    December 15, 2014 at 12:56 pm #69186
    Dating advice…

    So I was out of the dating game for a long time. I recently met this guy on line and we started emailing each other then met for drinks. I thought we had a good time and as we ended the evening he told me he wanted to kiss me – but there were a ton of people standing around and I wasn’t comfortable and neither was he. We have been texting and met for dinner on Saturday. I again thought we had a good time, the conversation flowed, he was very honest and open and overall I thought we had a good time. At the end of the night he hugged me, said it was good conversation (and he may have shared too much), talk to you soon and got into his car. I honestly didn’t think I would hear from him again; he texted me when he got home, had a good time. He has continued to text, initiated by him and I enjoy talking to him. I am however just confused as to where we are going. I can’t figure out if he’s attracted to me or just wants to be friends. Thoughts?

    December 15, 2014 at 8:44 pm #69247

    Hello, Snowwhite:

    You mention, that you have been out of a dating game for a while. Do you mind my asking, how old you are?
    Unfortunately, we live in the time of fast… everything. We watch movies where people kiss and jump into bed on a first date. But if you think about it, it used to be different. A kiss, a first kiss used to mean something. From what I understand, you only met twice. And he is clearly interested, otherwise he would not be communicating with you or asking you for the second date. Men are as confused and shy as we are these days. They don’t understand what women want. There are no clear “rules” anymore. You mention, that he asked if he could kiss you, so obviously he was interested. Not all men are “aggressive” enough as to come out and kiss you even on a second date. You need to encourage him the next time you see each other. With a body language, flirtation. Be a woman that you are. Show with your eyes and a warm smile that you are interested.

    December 16, 2014 at 4:27 pm #69293

    Sounds like he is feeling you out. But I would make sure that you do not fall into that buddy zone, and if it was me, Ill just ask what his intensions are lol

    December 17, 2014 at 2:07 pm #69358

    Obviously he’s interested in you if he messaged you as soon as he got home..

    December 23, 2014 at 2:25 pm #69568

    Making sure you got home is always a good sign. It’s always hard to establish where things are going in the beginning, unless you are direct and ask about it. If that’s hard to do, just wait it out and try to pick up on the hints in terms of body language and the kinds of things you talk about.