Dating… Hanging Out… Potential Boyfriend…?

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Dating… Hanging Out… Potential Boyfriend…?

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    Tank123
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    October 26, 2015 at 7:44 pm #87419
    Dating… Hanging Out… Potential Boyfriend…?

    I met this guy off of Tinder last December. we hit it off real well, into a lot of the same things and enjoy each other’s company. during the summer we went to Cabo together with his parents, brother, and his brother’s gf. it has now turned into where we sleepover with each other every weekend (sleeping with sex and no sex), both of our families think we are together (bf/gf), all of our friends can see it as well. I’ve told him how I felt, how I want to be with him and he had no response to give. in public he acts like we are together, in front of family and friends also. I don’t know what to do, if I should continue this “potential” relationship or if I should go. I know he cares about me and all that but I don’t know why he wont commit. I don’t know what his deal is, it’s painful to feel a certain way about somebody and not have it fully reciprocated. please help

    Coolwhip
    Coolwhip
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    October 27, 2015 at 6:34 am #87432

    From a guys perspective I can only see a few reasons why someone would do that (at least for me)

    1. He got with you while being lonely, and even though things are going well. He probably is experiencing split emotions inside. Part of him doesn’t want things to change because he feels that hes invested in you. (ie. Time, Money, Feelings, experiences, etc) And its not like hes “Unhappy” with you. The other part is probably the idea that “Someone better could come along” and has developed this “Things are fine the way they are” mentality. And is holding off only because he doesn’t want to be lonely again before finding a better catch.

    2. He’s seeing someone else on the side, plans to see someone else on the side or something of this nature.

    3. Something unknown to you is preventing him from taking it to the next level because you would inevitably find out his secret.

    This again are just a couple of guesses that I have thought of. Best of luck to you.