Did I Do Something Wrong?

DATING ADVICE FORUM

Did I Do Something Wrong?

    Author
    Comments

  • Brother_Nero2016
    Participant
    August 13, 2016 at 7:05 pm #108163
    Did I Do Something Wrong?

    My girlfriend and I were having pleasant conversations today. Everything was going well. Today she tells me that her friend is having relationship problems. She told me that she was going to give her friend my number so that I could try to give her advice. I made a joke and said that they would have to pay for my services. My girlfriend did not find it funny and got really quiet on the phone. I asked her if something was wrong. She got very defensive and accused me of taking out my frustrations on her. I just made a joke about paying for my advice and she got upset. Did I do something wrong here?


    MtnMan77
    Participant
    August 15, 2016 at 9:11 am #108168

    No, she needs to lighten up.

    redlips
    redlips
    Participant
    August 15, 2016 at 11:16 pm #108322

    No. You have to enlighten her about the problem.


    johnnykkh11
    Participant
    August 16, 2016 at 1:04 pm #108390

    Yeah no just tell her you’re joking again. Not your prob


    saltlyfe89
    Participant
    August 16, 2016 at 1:15 pm #108398

    Sounds like she’s upset about other things, you didn’t do anything wrong.


    sabbe55
    Participant
    August 19, 2016 at 5:04 pm #108911

    Of course you did nothing wrong! Maybe she was just in a bad moon about something else happening before. Or she should just learn to unterstand some humor!


    Mister J
    Participant
    August 19, 2016 at 5:34 pm #108929

    I make similar jokes to my gf that she doesn’t take as funny and does the same thing. You didn’t do anything wrong at all. It may take a little time for her to get past her offensive side so just be a little patient with her.


    uphillbattle
    Participant
    August 19, 2016 at 7:45 pm #108939

    No, you did not do anything wrong.


    animal13
    Participant
    August 20, 2016 at 3:22 pm #108979

    You’ve done nothing wrong. I would just wait it off


    ShyGuyJames
    Participant
    August 21, 2016 at 9:31 am #108988
    Reply To: Did I Do Something Wrong?

    I don’t think you did something wrong, but I’ve been told by women that the way they react to situations depends on what mood you catch them in. If she was in a good mood on that particular day, your joke wouldn’t have even registered. But because you caught her in a bad mood, your joke really rubbed her the wrong way. Give her some time to cool off and apologize only if you feel like you’re in the wrong.


    PennyANDMe97
    Participant
    August 22, 2016 at 12:58 am #109002
    Reply To: Did I Do Something Wrong?

    You didn’t do anything wrong. Something else may be bothering her and she took it out on you.


    Brother_Nero2016
    Participant
    September 1, 2016 at 10:07 pm #110379
    Reply To: Did I Do Something Wrong?

    She has these random mood swings. I don’t know what they’re all about. It’s almost like she isn’t happy about something in the relationship and refuses to talk about it with me.


    shrimpgumbo22
    Participant
    September 2, 2016 at 12:28 pm #110422
    Reply To: Did I Do Something Wrong?

    She is just probably feeling her friends stress. I bet he friends is putting a lot on her hence why she wants you to talk to her. It will pass.


    Manobilli
    Participant
    September 2, 2016 at 7:02 pm #110456
    Reply To: Did I Do Something Wrong?

    No you havent


    daisy123
    Participant
    September 6, 2016 at 1:00 pm #110584
    Reply To: Did I Do Something Wrong?

    Sounds silly to me she must be a younger person to take it that way. Or she’s on her time of the month but definitely too sensitive.