Brother_Nero2016ParticipantAugust 13, 2016 at 7:05 pm #108163
My girlfriend and I were having pleasant conversations today. Everything was going well. Today she tells me that her friend is having relationship problems. She told me that she was going to give her friend my number so that I could try to give her advice. I made a joke and said that they would have to pay for my services. My girlfriend did not find it funny and got really quiet on the phone. I asked her if something was wrong. She got very defensive and accused me of taking out my frustrations on her. I just made a joke about paying for my advice and she got upset. Did I do something wrong here?
redlipsParticipantAugust 15, 2016 at 11:16 pm #108322
No. You have to enlighten her about the problem.
johnnykkh11ParticipantAugust 16, 2016 at 1:04 pm #108390
Yeah no just tell her you’re joking again. Not your prob
saltlyfe89ParticipantAugust 16, 2016 at 1:15 pm #108398
Sounds like she’s upset about other things, you didn’t do anything wrong.
sabbe55ParticipantAugust 19, 2016 at 5:04 pm #108911
Of course you did nothing wrong! Maybe she was just in a bad moon about something else happening before. Or she should just learn to unterstand some humor!
Mister JParticipantAugust 19, 2016 at 5:34 pm #108929
I make similar jokes to my gf that she doesn’t take as funny and does the same thing. You didn’t do anything wrong at all. It may take a little time for her to get past her offensive side so just be a little patient with her.
animal13ParticipantAugust 20, 2016 at 3:22 pm #108979
You’ve done nothing wrong. I would just wait it off
ShyGuyJamesParticipantAugust 21, 2016 at 9:31 am #108988
I don’t think you did something wrong, but I’ve been told by women that the way they react to situations depends on what mood you catch them in. If she was in a good mood on that particular day, your joke wouldn’t have even registered. But because you caught her in a bad mood, your joke really rubbed her the wrong way. Give her some time to cool off and apologize only if you feel like you’re in the wrong.
PennyANDMe97ParticipantAugust 22, 2016 at 12:58 am #109002
You didn’t do anything wrong. Something else may be bothering her and she took it out on you.
Brother_Nero2016ParticipantSeptember 1, 2016 at 10:07 pm #110379
She has these random mood swings. I don’t know what they’re all about. It’s almost like she isn’t happy about something in the relationship and refuses to talk about it with me.
shrimpgumbo22ParticipantSeptember 2, 2016 at 12:28 pm #110422
She is just probably feeling her friends stress. I bet he friends is putting a lot on her hence why she wants you to talk to her. It will pass.
ManobilliParticipantSeptember 2, 2016 at 7:02 pm #110456
No you havent
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