Did I get rejected or does she just want some time?

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Did I get rejected or does she just want some time?

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    RejectedOrNot
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    June 2, 2016 at 1:09 pm #102027
    Did I get rejected or does she just want some time?

    I’ve known this girl for a while and she’s been my friend. I do know that shes pretty cautious with guys right now because she broke up with somebody like a year ago and he really broke her heart. We usually text each other at night like everyday and one day I mustered up courage to ask her out.
    She tells me as of right now she wants to be friends with me, but she also tells me it won’t be dating, but won’t be just a friendship either. She doesn’t want to get separated from me as a friend. Then before we both went to sleep I asked her “what are we?” and she replied, “somewhere in the middle for now.” What does this even mean? She agreed we should go out on a date soon but I don’t know how she really feels about me.


    RejectedOrNot
    Participant
    June 2, 2016 at 8:19 pm #102056

    Bump


    RejectedOrNot
    Participant
    June 3, 2016 at 12:06 am #102062

    Please help me out guys!

    Desmonnd
    Desmonnd
    Participant
    June 3, 2016 at 10:27 am #102082

    Tell her to put up or shut up. Tell her If she doesn’t want to be your girlfriend, you will find someone who will.
    If she doesn’t tell you something you want to hear, tell her you won’t vote for Hillary as a way of getting even with women, because she made you feel this way.


    kaze
    Participant
    June 4, 2016 at 5:41 pm #102166

    If you like her and trust her I would take her at her word. Sometimes people need time, better for her to take the time she needs before jumping head long into a relationship before she’s ready. To me it sounds like she does like you just like she says she does, but she doesn’t want to ruin anything by rushing ahead to quickly. She wants to be sure, because she doesn’t want to get hurt again. You should respect her for liking you that much that she doesn’t want to risk ruining it. It means she likes you for who you are instead of because you’ll sleep with her.


    Melody
    Participant
    June 14, 2016 at 6:13 pm #103356

    She just has her walls up. I’ve been in her situation before. Just give it time, hun. She’s probably just not quite ready yet. Patience and understanding is key.