Did I just fuck things up???


Did I just fuck things up???

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    January 3, 2017 at 9:21 pm #121567
    Did I just fuck things up???

    I have never been in a romantic relationship and am a virgin just so you understand. Anyhow to the topic at hand. OK so i have been talking to the girl for a little while now, and things seemed to be going ok. We have not meet yet, she lives about 1 to 2 hours away and I dont have a running car at the moment and she knows this. Then she threw me a curve ball.
    Out of the blue one night she sends me a messages
    “Ok so i’m fucking horney and theres nobody here to fuck.”

    catching me off guard and not know what to say it sent
    “That’s unfortunate. Wish there was something I could say or do to comfort you”

    She then replied
    “LMAO was wondering how you would respond to that.”

    and without thinking i sent back.
    “ya lol I am rather lacking in that area of expertise”..

    we talked for a while longer that night
    but sense then she has become somewhat distant almost to the point of not responding.

    January 4, 2017 at 3:22 pm #121734

    Well at least you were being honest to her!!, don’t go around looking for her!,give yourself some respect.if she is really interested she will call you back.

    March 27, 2017 at 2:10 pm #131255

    honesty is the best policy, she’ll appreciate that

    March 29, 2017 at 3:07 pm #131502

    She wanted to get to know you first before she hooked up with you but when she got your reply she realized what type of guy you were. Which you are the decent kind that don’t care for fucking everything that moves. Not worth investing in a relationship with bro

    March 30, 2017 at 12:50 am #131548

    Honestly, since she messaged you that she was in the mood, she was probably expecting a different response. I wouldn’t necessarily say you effed it up, but you probably didn’t respond the way she was hoping.