Did I just screw this up?


Did I just screw this up?

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    August 15, 2014 at 11:26 pm #59497
    Did I just screw this up?

    I met a girl months ago and we briefly talked and texted. She really seemed to like me and I liked her too. Recently I found her online dating profile and decided to text her telling her she was exactly what I was looking for and I wasn’t sure if she would remember me. But she did and she said she really liked me from the few minutes we spent together. The only problem is that she is 2 years older than me and her profile said she was looking for her age and older. When she said she liked me in the texts, I said that she may not be aware of my age and then she quit texting. I really like this one. Did I screw this up. She didn’t respond to my last text. What should I do?

    August 16, 2014 at 2:31 pm #59508

    Wait a day and then give her a call. Context can be misunderstood through texts. And also don’t talk about age. 2 years difference is nothing and if she likes you then she likes you. If she doesn’t then move on. Good luck

    August 17, 2014 at 5:00 am #59516

    No you did not screw up. I think if she said she likes you there is no point to jump to conclusion that she’s not going to like you because of the age. She already said she likes you. There’s no point to be like oh I’m younger you’re not going to like me. I have a younger brother and he is four years younger than his gf. And most girls like older men. But I’ve seen a lot of younger guys with older girls. You never know when and where love is going to spark. Wait a couple days or a week or two hit her up with a text. If she doesn’t reply. Then leave it be and move on. Good luck