Did I mess up?

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Did I mess up?

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    kuzyaburst
    Participant
    April 22, 2016 at 11:45 pm #98576
    Did I mess up?

    The whole week I kept hesitating to talk to her until Wednesday happened. On Wednesday, as she walks by, I say, there! to my friend, Go get her, I was too scared, So I kept sitting saying not now, so he ran after her for me, and told her to add me on Snap Chat which she did.. Thursday comes, I’m still thinking about her (haven’t dated a girl in 3 yrs). I snapchatted her to see if she had time after school, she didn’t.. the next day? She did! Friday comes, I’m confident, I see her in between classes, my friend saw me hesitating and literally pushed me to her! I had no choice of turning around now, so I introduced myself, we talked for about a minute (we were both rushing to class) and I asked again if she had time after school, again she said no because of song writing, I wasn’t prepared for that response and said “umm” (awkward silence) she starts turning to her class I was confused I looked at her, she didn’t turn around and I kept walking. IDIOT, I should’ve said something! Right?


    kuzyaburst
    Participant
    April 22, 2016 at 11:50 pm #98577

    CONTINUED: This whole night i can’t stop feeling stupid! When she was talking to me earlier, it was obvious she was a little nervous because she was talking faster than usual, and didn’t stop smiling, is that a sign? Did I mess up? Can I fix this, should I even be concerned with my dumb action…. I wanted to text her on Snapchat to see if she was doing anything this weekend because I still want to fully converse and connect with her a little more. Would I look needy? Should I apologize? Should I just wait till Monday for school again, I feel like I have to text her this weekend or it’ll literally tear me in half to wait. Please help, this is stressing me out so much.


    james
    Participant
    April 26, 2016 at 10:33 am #98791

    You need to the first move, and talk to her…tell her about your feelings

    Trinityalways
    Trinityalways
    Participant
    April 26, 2016 at 3:25 pm #98842

    She is into song writing. Write her a shot clip poem that talks about your first meet being pushed into her and awkward silence and your wanting to ask her out end it with your phone number her court now.