Did I mess up or should I move on??

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Did I mess up or should I move on??

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    jc36
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    February 26, 2014 at 2:47 am #48447
    Did I mess up or should I move on??

    met a guy online in December we hit it off from the 1st chat! Spoke every day literally morning, noon & night. We exchanged numbers, photos, conversations were great, we had an instant connection, never dead air, both agreed emotionally we hit it off. He responds to my texts right away, doesn’t usually text first. Distance is a concern for both makes things harder. 3 months later still have not met in person. He asked me out after 1 week online, I wasn’t comfortable then winter happened! I asked to meet over the weekend. He couldn’t & I said something stupid about being time to move on. Later I apologize bc that’s not what I wanted. I offended him, he said I was playing a game. Didn’t speak for 2 days, discussed it saturday but he’s distant. He continues to tell me I’m a great girl, if I was closer we would have met already, he needed some time to get things in order (changing jobs). I haven’t text him in 2 days haven’t heard from him either. Do I move on? Give him time then text? Help

    Ilion
    Ilion
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    February 27, 2014 at 9:17 am #48507

    Well, he senses that you are into him and he is keeping it ‘cold’. My suggestion is to let him now write to you first. If he is not writing, then move on.

    I don’t like this type of games. I think that if you two really like each other, there would not have been this kind of communication lag. This means that something is wrong, it may be that he lost his interest, or in the first place his interest was in playing games and getting laid.


    ninjalewis
    Participant
    February 27, 2014 at 9:27 am #48512

    I would move on. If it’s been 3 months and u haven’t seen each other and now communication is starting to fade. Sounds like he’s lost intrest

    sharklasers
    sharklasers
    Participant
    February 27, 2014 at 6:14 pm #48563

    It sounds like he feels the distance is too big of a problem and given your initial behavior he might feel you’re not worth the effort, unfortunately. I agree with ninjalewis, it’s probably best to move on.


    pbx39
    Participant
    April 11, 2014 at 6:12 pm #49045

    Some guys just like chatting. Fantasy relationship 🙁