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cleckop000

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April 19, 2015 at 11:24 am #77537

Did I miss my chance or should I try again?

First of all, I’m REALLY shy and especially around girls. I’ve talked to a few, and gone out with some, but hardly any.
Anyway, a couple of weeks ago at a party I saw a girl I’ve always known since high school, but hardly talked to. We talked briefly, but she went to talk to my friend. My friend told me she really liked me, but this guy’s always giving me crap, so I thought he was joking. Later, we talked some more and she probably flirted with me, but as I said I’m really shy, so that didn’t work out to well.

Just yesterday, I asked my friend what she told him that day. After I left those two to talk, she told him she really likes guys with red hair (which I have). She asked him if I had a phone, internet, or Snapchat. I’m pretty sure at this point she was interested in me, but I’m afraid I messed things up. Since then we’ve seen each other but nothing more than a “hello” has been said. Should I just try talking to her again? What should I do?

grande123

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April 19, 2015 at 2:05 pm #77539

YES, talk to her. She’s obviously interested and trust me, being a girl, if she’s interested and you don’t talk to her she will be extremely disappointed. Just go for it man and ask her out. She’ll either say yes or no, and if it’s no then that’s it, life isn’t over

Samurai123NJ

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April 19, 2015 at 2:56 pm #77544

Talk to her!

chillwaveguy

Participant

April 19, 2015 at 3:52 pm #77548

Dude, you won’t find out if you don’t try but there are subtle hints that can give you a hint at what she feels.

Calsqueezy

Participant

April 20, 2015 at 12:18 am #77554

She likes you go talk to her!

system311

Participant

April 20, 2015 at 12:08 pm #77577

Go for it!

Asking those questions about you is a sign that she is interested. You will never know if you don’t try!

cleckop000

Participant

April 21, 2015 at 10:01 pm #77696

Yeah, I tried talking to get today, and she wouldn’t say anything, so I screwed Up.

smk1ller

Participant

April 26, 2015 at 9:08 pm #77917

Yea talk to her more.I used to be really shy, but when you get past that things get a lot better.
Show her that you are interested as well. Don’t worry about messing up, if they like you they will find it funny and cute.