Did I screw this up? (High school)


Did I screw this up? (High school)

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    November 27, 2013 at 2:57 am #43595
    Did I screw this up? (High school)

    I just want to know if what I texted her was really bad and why. So we are both 16 and we have been friends for 3 years. Neither of us have dated anyone and she isn’t the type of girl that all the guys are chasing. This summer we started talking all the time and we said we liked each other. We have been on one date that I feel went well (5 days ago). She is out of town right now and she texted me. We talked for about 20 minutes, then I didn’t reply. This was our conversation about 30 minutes later:
    HER: Are you asleep?
    ME: No, I’m just listening to music and thinking about you
    HER: Haha me too
    ME: Can I ask you something? You have to be honest
    HER: ok
    ME: I have to think of how to word this…
    HER: just say it
    ME: Do you want to be more than just friends? I know we went on that date and it wasn’t anything amazing, but I had a great time and I think about you a lot. ☺️

    November 27, 2013 at 2:59 am #43596

    HER: Ya I guess I do but idk what my parents would say cause they are really pushing me to follow the strength of youth(our religious book that says not to date exclusively in high school) pretty closely
    ME: Haha no. I definitely don’t want to push you to lower your standards or anything. I just feel like we have a lot of chemistry and we are already kind of past just friends
    HER: I think I’ll have to think about it. I should go to bed though cause I have to get up at 630 to drive some more. Goodnight
    ME: Ok. I still don’t really know what I’m doing, I’ve never had a girlfriend or anything
    HER: Ok goodnight
    ME: Anyway, goodnight. You looked beautiful today

    • This reply was modified 4 years, 5 months ago by  bransonsavage.

    November 27, 2013 at 12:55 pm #43658

    No you did the right thing by saying how you feel

    November 27, 2013 at 8:51 pm #43662

    agree you told her how you feel which is important, she used the time to go bed excuse because she didn’t no what to write back to you. Give her time and if she really wants to be with you she will reply with the answer you want. Try not to be any more pushy though, let it settle a but now 🙂

    November 29, 2013 at 11:37 am #43681

    Yea man, just wait for her response, its best to leave it at that.

    March 17, 2014 at 12:44 pm #49371

    It’s best to find out sooner than later, so I think you did the right thing.

    March 18, 2014 at 12:18 am #49405

    You need to give her space for a few days. She needs time to think.