Do average looking guys like me stand a chance, please give tips.

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Do average looking guys like me stand a chance, please give tips.

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    Stevennaidoo
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    September 3, 2015 at 4:05 pm #85102
    Do average looking guys like me stand a chance, please give tips.

    Hi,

    I am a 20 year old guy. I have not had my first kiss yet nor have I ever been on a date. I am very introverted and generally spend most of my time alone. However, I am very polite, well-mannered and kind. Charity work is something that I enjoy doing. I also enjoy helping others and am known for putting others ahead of myself. I am very quiet in general but people do describe me as “sweet”.

    Why do you think it is that girls are generally not interested in me?

    This is my Picture.

    https://www.flickr.com/photos/124863760@N03/18850131839/in/dateposted-public/


    pragmaster
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 5:58 pm #85103

    Hey man,

    I dont think you are doing anything wrong, I recommend practicing public speaking, practicing eye contact, making sure your posture is good and in general just be yourself. Dont sweat it man, theres so much time its crazy. Also, for fun, maybe go on a vacation to a different city and be whoever you always wanted to be. Experiment and don`t worry about the outcomes.

    I recommend reading a book called No More Mr.Nice Guy. Sometimes nice guy tendencies turn women off. The book explains that in much greater detail. Cheers!


    janedoe
    Participant
    September 3, 2015 at 7:02 pm #85111

    There is nothing wrong with you. Try stepping outside of your comfort zone and talk to girls. Looks aren’t everything, personality is important too!