Do girls like withdrawn guys?

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Do girls like withdrawn guys?

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    headlights
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    October 11, 2014 at 1:54 am #65701
    Do girls like withdrawn guys?

    I’ve always been withdrawn, quiet, and unsociable. I was weirder when I was younger; I hated, HATED smiling in photos, and I had trouble raising my voice to audible levels.

    Nowadays, I prefer to shut my mouth whenever I can. I only talk when I have to, and when I do talk I’m rather monotone. I would be speaking in the same tone of voice when I’m angry, when I’m happy, or when there’s a missile coming for me and my friends.

    But, after reading some dating advice on other sites, I noticed that girls like “mysterious” guys.

    Therefore, would you say girls would like my personality?


    AlexHg657
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    October 11, 2014 at 2:12 am #65703

    Mystery can cause a woman to be curious, which will then prompt them to want to learn about and possibly approach you in some way. The tricky part to that is that you have to gain their attention and at the same time convey that mystery about yourself. I have done this a few times, inadvertently so I don’t have any advice on how to do it.

    CoolCat771
    CoolCat771
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    October 13, 2014 at 8:54 am #65751

    It’s true, but if you’re interested you have to show SOME level of interest, or else the girl you like might think you’re not interested in her.

    Dulu
    Dulu
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    October 13, 2014 at 9:33 am #65710

    From personal experience, I’d say most women like the assertive, dominant alpha male type primarily.

    If they had a choice, it’s going to be that tall, loud, “boss” archetype.


    Clem23
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    October 13, 2014 at 1:39 pm #65786

    It’s true you could appear “mysterious” to certain girls,but that’s only what triggers (sometimes, not always) attraction: if you remain enigmatic and silent all the time, girls will feel like they can never know what you think, what kind of person you are. Your shyness shouldn’t hide your personality on long term, cause that for sure would be a huge turn off. So,practice ! Learn how to express your thoughts without being afraid of what people think (no girl wants to be with someone who is always afraid to speak up) and to allow emotions to come out sometimes.


    avatar576
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    October 15, 2014 at 1:53 am #65954

    I hate to say it, but probably not. Unless you show her that you’re interested, she will probably not be all that curious or inquisitive about you, unless she finds you completely, utterly and irresistibly attractive. Since that’s only about 0.001% of all men, you’ll need to get in the game with the rest of the guys, find the girl you like and show interest in her. That’s the only way to get her to wonder what you’re like.


    Black.lion
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    October 15, 2014 at 5:01 am #65966

    Its hard to say my friend women are just confusing like that. but from experience i can say women love confidence. They like to know the man is interested and so they do the usual “Playing Coy” act.


    Black.lion
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    October 15, 2014 at 5:03 am #65967

    But You Mysterious factor will play a big part when you engage the woman. Makes them more curious.


    Metacheome
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    October 15, 2014 at 5:34 pm #66000

    It’s quite possible that someone might be INTERESTED in you. But if you’re interested in someone, you’ll definitely have to learn to speak up. It’s very unlikely that you’ll just have girls flocking to you if you don’t say/do anything. You shouldn’t necessarily be afraid of talking ever. I don’t know if it’s your nature, or if you’re worried that the things you say will come off as “weird” but you should honestly just put in that extra ounce of effort. People will notice, and therefore more people will probably be more interested

    Shadowprime
    Shadowprime
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    October 17, 2014 at 12:59 pm #66111
    Reply To: Do girls like withdrawn guys?

    To an extant but some maybe scared o a guy too withdrawn mainly because they dont know what they want and or what they will do