Do I assume he isn't interested…online dating advice needed ?

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Do I assume he isn't interested…online dating advice needed ?

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    adomynous6891
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    August 6, 2017 at 5:21 pm #144400
    Do I assume he isn't interested…online dating advice needed ?

    Went on a date with a guy on Friday – went really well. He text me after to say he had an amazing night. The next day we spoke but he was a bit quiet. I made it clear I would like to see him again but this weekend he is busy (I knew he was tied up for a few weeks before we had met) I said I would leave the ball in his court and to let me know when he was free, he said ‘ok babe xx’. Since then he sent me a picture from his day on Sunday but on Mon and Tues I heard nothing. Do I assume he isn’t interested? Wednesday I text him and said hello. He replied and said he was sorry he hadn’t been in touch and that he had had a break in at home and it had been a nightmare. I responded and said I was sorry to hear that and was he ok. No response. It’s now Sunday and I’ve heard nothing (I know he was busy all weekend). The date honestly went so well (dinner, drinks, somehand holding and kissing). I’m so confused and can’t stop thinking about him.


    Buffy
    Participant
    August 8, 2017 at 10:08 pm #144702

    He kinda sounds like he’s stringing you along. I personally wouldn’t contact him again (you’ve done all the initiating) and if he truly likes you, he will contact you SOON. You don’t want to come off as desperate – if he likes you, he will do anything to be with you (especially in the beginning.)

    Infinity
    Infinity
    Participant
    August 8, 2017 at 11:48 pm #144704

    He is dating other women. Wait for him to call you.

    richiro
    richiro
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    August 9, 2017 at 1:34 pm #144757

    you’re jumping way too soon to conclusions. you met him friday.. and come tuesday you’re making conclusiong about your future?
    sorry.. that’s just unreasonable especially IF YOU KNEW GOING IN this is a busy guy!

    dial it back. a lot.
    he is a busy guy. he didn’t suddenlly get UN-BUSY because he had a first date with you.


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    August 11, 2017 at 7:18 pm #145145

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    loveisforever
    Participant
    August 12, 2017 at 9:13 am #145229

    If a guy is really into you, he will call. I agree that you should dial back and wait for his call. If he does not call in a week then he is not interested. Moving on will do you good.


    CantCY
    Participant
    August 14, 2017 at 10:48 pm #145484

    I’ve learned the hard way if he wants you he’ll chase you. Sorry


    orlando090
    Participant
    August 25, 2017 at 12:17 am #146928

    I think he is not so into you. sorry.


    els17
    Participant
    August 25, 2017 at 5:38 am #146930

    I dont think there is any rush to get the next date, sometimes Ive waited weeks in between dates as both parties were busy so just be patient and if its the same in a couple of weeks then I would move on. Dont put all your eggs in one basket just yet, if he knows how great you are so he will organise a date soon 🙂


    ButterflyHMW
    Participant
    August 27, 2017 at 10:16 pm #147162
    Reply To: Do I assume he isn't interested…online dating advice needed ?

    Seems wishy-washy to me


    micamarton
    Participant
    August 28, 2017 at 12:32 am #147169
    Reply To: Do I assume he isn't interested…online dating advice needed ?

    i think that you should try slow it down a little. you don’t want to seem overly keen and put him off! i know its hard because the date went so well and you obviously really like him. Make it look like you’re busy, not just waiting around for his texts. If he’s really interested, he will get in touch with you! the ball is in his court now.