Do I still have a chance?

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Do I still have a chance?

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    applesandbananas
    Participant
    June 5, 2016 at 4:15 pm #102197
    Do I still have a chance?

    I met this guy online we went on 5 (over a month dating) dates in total, he took me to an amazing bar with an incredible sky line view, cooked me dinner and always arranged another date on the date. I got on really well with him and really liked him.

    A date was arranged one evening but he had to cancel an hour before the date. Unfortunately I wasn’t understanding about it and was feeling insecure. However he was being genuine. I let him know I wasn’t happy. (argument.) The next day he messaged saying that he had broken up with his x girlfriend of three years 4 months ago and the main problem was that he didn’t spend enough time with her due to his work/friends etc…and didn’t want to get into another relationship worrying the same thing would happen and so we argued.

    I text a week later saying, hey, am i forgiven. I miss your face. Wanna hang out sometime? But no response. It’s been a few weeks now and I’m following no contact rule. Will he get back in touch?


    Louie97
    Participant
    June 5, 2016 at 10:31 pm #102200

    mhmm. From the looks of things it does not seem as though he is gonna make an attempt to communicate with you seeing that he did not respond to your last message and also seeing that you are on no contact. BUT, I must commend this guy on being straight forward and honest with you about his fears that getting into anything serious with you will turn out like his last failed relationship. In my opinion, that was a manly and mature move on his part and shows he does not wish to jeopardize your feelings…which you should respect. Best wishes.


    ltcm1847
    Participant
    June 6, 2016 at 4:23 pm #102261

    sounds like you do


    Zikomo7
    Participant
    June 6, 2016 at 11:07 pm #102282

    I’m afraid not. You could reach out to him again to apologize for being forward and just hang? But yeah things don’t sound good.