Do/did we have a thing? What to do now??

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Do/did we have a thing? What to do now??

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    pumpkin
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    October 18, 2014 at 3:44 pm #66159
    Do/did we have a thing? What to do now??

    I work with this woman who i have a massive crush on. Things seemed to be going really well a couple of months ago,when i walked passed her desk she always turned to talk to me,when she talked to me she would lightly touch my hands &arms,she would laugh at things i say, compliment me&make joking suggestions like when i got a hole in my trousers she asked if she could put a finger in it.Then all of a sudden for around 2 weeks she ignored me and didn’t even look at me. She has started talking to me again but doesn’t do the touching anymore.She is a higher grade than me&is going for a promotion-i don’t know if she thought she shouldn’t be seen talking to me so much or if shes just not that into me?She’s divorced with kids &i thought she was straight initially but last week she said 100% straight people we’re homophobes which made me think she was trying to say she wasn’t all that straight?She’s always works through lunch so i haven’t asked her to go. How do i find out if she’s interested?


    pumpkin
    Participant
    October 25, 2014 at 9:08 am #66546

    Anyone??


    oaklyfe
    Participant
    November 6, 2014 at 8:18 pm #67157

    Maybe she herself was tipping you off that she too is homophobic and thats why the arm touches stopped?


    crushingconfessions
    Participant
    April 21, 2015 at 10:23 pm #77698

    I think she is definitely into you, since you mention she is going for a promotion she is probably not willing to risk her promotion. Continue to talk to her & maybe once she gets promoted the touching will begin


    meryam2346
    Participant
    August 14, 2015 at 10:24 pm #84123

    nive hhhhhhhhhhhh