Does he think I'm a creep? Playing the staring game over here. Help?

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Does he think I'm a creep? Playing the staring game over here. Help?

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    Lonely_Girl
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    July 22, 2013 at 1:16 pm #35673
    Does he think I'm a creep? Playing the staring game over here. Help?

    There’s this guy at my church who plays the guitar. I have a small crush on him, but I tend to stare often at him since I find him very attractive plus he’s right on stage so it’s sort of difficult to not look in his direction. I’ve noticed him looking back at me a few times, or at least it looks like he’s looking in my direction. One time when I sat closer to him, we made eye contact, and he kept staring at me for a few seconds. It was too intense for me so I couldn’t look back or even do something like smile. Also, usually before the worship service starts, the chorus and the band gather in a prayer circle. In one of these instances when he was in the prayer circle, he was standing with his back to me, but I suppose he felt me staring at him so he looked quickly at me then turned away. Thing is I would like to know if he’s looking at me because he also likes me back? Or do I actually creep him out? I’m wondering if he’s just trying to catch me in the act? I did notice he’s been walking by my row before the service begins (not right by me though, just by the area where I’m sitting). I’m assuming to take a leak before getting back on stage (sorry for being blunt). What do you think? Does it seem like I have a chance with him? Or does he think I’m a freak? I’m a little dense when it comes to this kind of stuff (haven’t dated in a long while so I’ve completely lost my touch) so any advice you can provide would be great. Thanks!


    Lonely_Girl
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    July 23, 2013 at 8:38 am #35760

    Also, I wanted to add something I hadn’t stated before: see I have big problem. See, I actually have a facial scar. It’s not big, not a gash, and it’s on the peripheral of my face but it’s still noticeable from up close. I usually wear makeup but even then you can still see it because of its shape. That’s why I haven’t bothered to approach him or something. I’m so scared that once he sees the scar, I’ll scare him away. This actually depresses me. Because I’m too scared of taking a chance out of fear of how he will judge/perceive me due to the scar but then again, I don’t know whether he’ll be more accepting and actually turn out to be the love of my life. What would you do?