Does my hookup have feelings for me?

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Does my hookup have feelings for me?

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    mads3131
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    April 11, 2015 at 4:14 pm #77087
    Does my hookup have feelings for me?

    So I have hung out and hooked up with this guy twice (don’t worry im not some crazy girl who now thinks we are in a relationship) I know potentially turning anything into a relationship takes time and getting to know someone. I like to go with the flow and enjoy my time with someone, although i know there is the potential of getting hurt. However, I would like to get an idea of whether this guy just sees me as a hookup or can see it going somewhere. I know asking him would scare him off since we have only hung out twice. However, we act different than things have been with other guys I have only hooked up with. Like both times he held my hand as we fell asleep and cuddled with me. We also sleep over and then spend some time talking and hanging out the next morning. He teases me and we have fun together. I know he talks to other girls and I talk to other guys. But the other night when we went to a party he held my hand and kissed me in front of his friends.


    WestX64
    Participant
    April 12, 2015 at 3:51 pm #77100

    I am a very affectionate guy and show affection towards any girl I sleep with. I am polite, thoughtful, and romantic towards them – but that does not mean I want a relationship with them. Still, you won’t know unless you ask him.

    runawayitsarm
    runawayitsarm
    Participant
    April 12, 2015 at 6:20 pm #77102

    Continue talking to him and showing interest. Try to get him to go out with you on something that doesn’t involve sex immediately. In other words, try to shift the attention from hook up or friends with benefits into something more serious by making a connection. This will take a long time though.


    sweetgirl
    Participant
    April 16, 2015 at 4:17 am #77333

    I get you I have had this before. But to be honest I think its just a Hookup. A lot of guys do that, just means they are nice. I have a had few guys Like this.


    Cami
    Participant
    April 16, 2015 at 4:10 pm #77406

    Try taking it slowly to another level that doesn’t involve sex. Ask if wants to go for lunch and make it clear you have to go back to work after and see if he bites. If he does and you still connect without having the conversation be about sex, you maybe onto something!