Does she really mean this?


Does she really mean this?

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    May 14, 2018 at 9:19 am #173062
    Does she really mean this?

    So I recently met a girl who works at a bar I go to. I hung out with her in a group and we got along very well so I decided to ask her for dinner. She told me she would like to go with me but she is going through a breakup from a long distance relationship that she has been in. She doesn’t know what is going to happen but right now she is not emotionally ready to go on a date with someone. However in the future once she figures out her current situation maybe we can go on a date. I have seen her a few times since I asked and have texted her a bit(not too much as I don’t want to push anything) but it seems to me that there could be something between us. Do you guys think she really means what she said, or was she just giving me an excuse and trying to be nice? I really like her so I think it would be worth waiting a bit but I just need some opinions on if its a good idea or not? Thanks

    May 14, 2018 at 11:41 am #173070

    Hi there,

    I would be able to gauge a lot more from this situation if you could clarify a bit more on what you mean when you say “it seems to me that there could be something between us.” What specifically about your interactions with this girl lead you to say this?

    May 14, 2018 at 11:59 am #173072

    Sure I will list a few:
    1. She smiles at me every time I see her
    2. Just this past weekend when I saw her as she was talking to me she put her hand on mine and left it there until she walked away
    3. When we were hanging out in the group she basically talked to only me the whole night
    4. She told a friend of mine that she thought I was a great guy without him even asking
    5. Laughs at what I say even if it inst something very funny
    6. The very few times I do text her it has always turned into a very nice conversation.
    7. I just feel a strong connection to her for some reason. Different than I ever felt with any other girl and I think she feels it too so I really hope I am right.

    Hope this helps, let me know if you need any more info