September 23, 2016 at 2:10 am #112252
I’ve been burnt a lot in the past and while this may seem obvious I don’t want to be wrong as I do value her as a friend.
We’re both in college and we’re in this really big organization together. She’s a freshman this year, but I’m a sophomore We’ve attended a lot of the parties for this org together but everytime it seems like we just end up talking to each other the whole night. I’ve been noticing that she’ll wait outside after the meeting is over and “be on her phone” until right when I come out. It’s not like I’m her only friend in the org, either – some of her best friends are in the club. She always laughs at my corny-ass jokes and always gives me this really big smile. She likes talking to me about her family. My friends have noticed these things too
That said, whenever I’ve texted her it always like she’s being a little bit short with me. She’s texted me first a few times but it doesn’t really feel the same as in person. Is she just a bad texter or is this a mixed signal?
NovacaneParticipantSeptember 23, 2016 at 2:55 am #112253
Next time try to take it somewhere at the party. Talking to a girl the whole night at a college party seems like friend zone to me. These texts look like they are confirming it.September 23, 2016 at 12:32 pm #112317
You might be right – with this girl I’m not sure. I’ll have to definitely look into it.
Lone WolfParticipantSeptember 29, 2016 at 3:56 pm #112834
Ask her out !!! You’ll never really know unless you ask
Unsure123ParticipantSeptember 30, 2016 at 8:28 am #112856
Just be up front and ask her, I personally wouldn’t worry too much about the texting, she could be anxious, trying to not come of annoying etc, or just busy. But by the sounds of it, in an offline sense, she seems pretty excited/happy around you, and is open about talking to others about you. Take her out to dinner someplace causal to open her up a little bit, then ask her the next day I suppose.
BigiParticipantOctober 2, 2016 at 9:18 am #112927
Just find out in person. Ask her out. The more you wait the less chances you have.October 3, 2016 at 12:14 am #112960
Just discovered that she’s told her sister about me. I would say this is a good thing?
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