Does this guy like ME or the ATTENTION?


Does this guy like ME or the ATTENTION?

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    April 5, 2014 at 3:22 pm #50488
    Does this guy like ME or the ATTENTION?

    I got a job offer in a different state and I’m moving there next month. There, I met a and he gave me his number. I got really interested in him. So last Sunday, I messaged him first, and became Facebook friends. I was bold which was unlike me, and I don’t know what came over me. I told him I was interested in him. I don’t know if he was curious too, but we ended up texting for about 7 hours.

    For the next few days, I was again intiating the conversation. He would respond within 20 minutes or so and we would text again. We talked on the phone and he said things like how I intimidated him because we are so different, but it is a good thing. He sent me a picture of him too. But again…I was always the first to. So I decided not to text him and see if he would yesterday. I didn’t hear from him. But he “liked” my profile picture on that I changed to. Today, I don’t hear from him, but I see he’s on facebook, leaving comments or posting up posts. So it’s not like he’s busy.

    Happy Joe
    April 6, 2014 at 1:11 pm #50499

    Just act like nothing happened and you are not worried. Give it a couple of days, if he is interested he will get in touch with you. Maybe he is trying to pull the not interested card to see if you are easy or not?

    April 9, 2014 at 11:49 pm #50837

    Nobody could really say for sure if he likes you, or likes the attention.
    Block him on your Facebook, and see what happens.

    If he doesn’t call you, no loss. Why? Because you’re new in that state/city and you really haven’t had a chance to meet any other guys yet , in the area. You don’t need a pup shadowing you and wondering where you are and who you are seeing.

    Next time, before inviting someone to your Facebook, spend some time with them.
    Also, little boys react to a feeling of “Like”.
    Men react to a feeling of sexual interest and then later, maybe a feeling of “Like”.
    The exception: He is really eager to get Friendzoned.