Don't Know How to Talk to This Guy

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Don't Know How to Talk to This Guy

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    loveroflove
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    July 10, 2016 at 1:31 pm #104800
    Don't Know How to Talk to This Guy

    So there’s this busboy at a restaurant that I like to go to and he’s VERY attractive. I really want to talk to him but the problem is that he’s always working and running around because, well, he’s a busboy. I don’t know what to say or how to talk to him for more than a minute. And I don’t know how to work around the work thing so I can have a conversation. I don’t know what to do. And ideas or advice? I really want this to work.

    Somme1947
    Somme1947
    Participant
    July 10, 2016 at 3:44 pm #104805

    what if you askhim for directions, and pass him a paper saying you like him or something like that?


    catpin
    Participant
    July 12, 2016 at 2:03 am #104925

    You should ask your server or other restaurant employee about him. Find out if he’s single. What’s the worst that could happen? Let your interest be known!


    Love Explained
    Participant
    July 15, 2016 at 8:53 pm #105434

    I find it interesting that you really want your relationship to work, with someone you have really never talked to. Fantasy not reality is what’s happening right now.


    loveroflove
    Participant
    July 16, 2016 at 11:43 am #105468

    I find it interesting that you really want your relationship to work, with someone you have really never talked to. Fantasy not reality is what’s happening right now.

    What I meant when I said that I wanted it to work was basically like I want the talking to him to work. I know I’ve never talked to him but that’s what I want to do. I would never want a relationship with someone I’ve never talked to. But I want to talk to him and see if he’s someone I could date.


    Cam76
    Participant
    July 16, 2016 at 2:06 pm #105472

    Can you find out his name and add him on social media? Or if you go the restaurant often, are there people working there you have become familiar with and you could ask about him?
    If all else fails, wink at him the next time you see him and see how he reacts