Don’t know what to do.

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Don’t know what to do.

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    confused1313
    Participant
    May 16, 2018 at 10:05 pm #174389
    Don’t know what to do.

    This girl out of the blue messaged me a few weeks ago wanting to get together so we did. Had a great time and continued to text and talk for about a week. This past weekend I sent her a couple of texts but no reply. I told myself I’m not going to contact anymore and have stuck to my guns. Am I doing the right thing?


    GenericUsername123
    Participant
    May 17, 2018 at 5:02 pm #174495

    If she hasnt replied for the past 2 days than it either means that something happened to her phone or shes playing hard to get. Theres no way that if you guys were having a good time and constintly texting that shed just lose interest so i think that you should wait about a week for her to reply and if she dousent then something probably happened or she lost your number somehow


    miamia123
    Participant
    May 17, 2018 at 7:57 pm #174498

    Maybe she was looking for a one night stand? Either way do not text her, let her come to you.


    confused1313
    Participant
    May 17, 2018 at 9:46 pm #174501

    Your second reply?🤣🤣🤣🤣 Rock on!!


    advi
    Participant
    May 18, 2018 at 8:37 am #174518

    Maybe she was looking for a one night stand? Either way do not text her, let her come to you.

    I think so too


    confused1313
    Participant
    May 21, 2018 at 8:14 am #174663

    Update: glad I didn’t call her back. She updated her status on social media as being in a relationship. Probably an old boyfriend. Won’t get burned again.


    divya
    Participant
    May 22, 2018 at 12:08 pm #174896

    Have some patience and Try out one more time with text And THen decide


    Bluerose44
    Participant
    May 22, 2018 at 6:03 pm #174962

    Sorry to say but i think it was just a one time thing. Better luck next time 🙂

    darenmartin
    darenmartin
    Participant
    May 23, 2018 at 8:34 am #174981

    It’s too early to take any decision about what to do because she hasn’t responded to your text. Have patience and wait for few more days. I think this is the best thing you can do now.


    EthanW
    Participant
    May 23, 2018 at 10:47 pm #175108
    Reply To: Don’t know what to do.

    Depends


    SHaven123
    Participant
    May 24, 2018 at 11:47 am #175170
    Reply To: Don’t know what to do.

    Just keep waiting bromeo, girls don’t like it when guys appear clingy so don’t message here a bunch of times.

    TheGuy
    TheGuy
    Participant
    May 24, 2018 at 3:25 pm #175200
    Reply To: Don’t know what to do.

    well your already boned, but usually for this:
    Just send something simple like hey I haven’t heard back from you are you alright?
    a few more days later send something more serious like,
    Hey I wanted to know if you wanted to meet up again, for dinner or movie or something (that if you want this serious.)
    If you want a relationship make it sound like a date not a one night stand thing.
    wait a few more days and then text look if your not going to answer that is fine, I was hoping for something more but whatever have a good life.
    that usually get there attention…
    this will also answer your question, she is getting your messages,
    two scenarios will play from this, either she will contact you a few days later saying “sorry I lost my phone and I have not been getting the messages”
    she will still contact you but rarely, here you need to setup another meeting quickly, or she will lose interest again.
    or
    she will not contact you (in which case there nothing you can do and move on)