Dont know what to think

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Dont know what to think

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    Just Me
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    January 24, 2015 at 7:48 am #71777
    Dont know what to think

    Been dating this man for a couple of months we r a mixed race and we fell in love very fast.i am sort of getting mixed signals from him .i feel that he is a little secretive but just cant figure it out, We see eachother once a week due to he says he works 2 jobs but i have tried to talk with him and tell him how i feel he gets upset with me and we end up argueing , somethings just does not add up or make sense to me ,please help ,i really need advice


    LuxeGirl
    Participant
    January 25, 2015 at 8:19 pm #71818

    Usually if something doesn’t feel right, then it’s not right. It sounds like you might not know as much about him as you think you do. If he won’t sit down and talk to you calmly when you tell him how you feel, how do you think you might be able to build a life with him? When really hard things come up in life and marriage, how can you talk to someone that gets upset when you converse?


    Tapatio64
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    January 26, 2015 at 7:13 pm #71896

    Communication is one of the most important things in a relationship along with trust. As it seems you have neither and that is sad. I been in a marriage for 23 yrs before my late wife passed away from cancer, I have been in a new relationship for the last 2 1/2 yrs can I can tell you that communication and trust are the most important things. I continue this practice in my new relationship I give her no reason not to trust me and I give her more information that she would care for. Your boy’s actions do not give him an excuse or the right to communicate with you. I strongly recommend that you sit with him and exposed your true feelings on this matter. If he continues not to engage with you then you will have to look closely into your relationship and do what is best for you. I will you much LUCK!!!