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    beebee
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    April 17, 2014 at 12:36 pm #51386
    Don't Understand… Need to know!

    So I’m on a dating website where u have to answer a series of questions before talking to the other person. There’s this guy, nice looking, has a lot of the qualities I’m looking for, etc. We go through the process and get to open communication. We send two emails back and forth and then I thought I would give him my number to text or call. A week ago today he text, we chatted for a bit and then he just stopped texting. It was weird, because there was no date set up no nothing. I left it alone and then I text a few days later saying, hello and wishing him a good weekend. He’s a police man and so he responded and we chatted for a bit, and then again the conversation just ended. Now I do realize he’s pretty busy, plus he’s got three kids, but am I wasting my time. I thought it would be nice yesterday just to text and say hope your having a good week, he responded and asked me how I was and how was work, but then again went silent. Obviously I’m not texting again, but can someone tell me why this happens? He hasn’t even met me yet to make a decision on whether he likes me, etc. So what’s the deal?


    maestrakk
    Participant
    May 4, 2014 at 3:47 pm #52163

    I’ve been in the situation and I sympathize with how frustrating it is…but ultimately it doesn’t matter why it’s happening. What matters is that it is happening and that he is not the guy for you. You’re worrying about someone who you haven’t met yet. Maybe he’s married, maybe he’s conflicted, maybe he’s decided he’s not ready to date…but he’s not the right guy for you. Move on to someone else. Don’t waste your time trying to figure him out. Good luck.


    jennaj25
    Participant
    May 22, 2014 at 10:04 am #53526

    Because he is probably talking to other woman. Don’t chase, replace!

    Thomas1414
    Thomas1414
    Participant
    May 22, 2014 at 10:41 am #53543

    Agree with Jenna. Chasing girl always seem despaired to a man! always. Unless he is very insecure himself.