Emergency! What should I say after an awkward follow up meet up?


Emergency! What should I say after an awkward follow up meet up?

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    November 15, 2016 at 10:54 pm #117429
    Emergency! What should I say after an awkward follow up meet up?

    We met through tinder. We’re friends on facebook, went out a couple of times already and we recently had sex. I find him attractive with a great personality. I kinda want this to continue beyond tinder hook up thing. Yesterday I asked whether if it’s okay if I went to his place and hang out. He said okay. When I got there we just saw a movie, we didn’t even had a decent conversation and he fell asleep toward the end of the film. I didn’t know what to do so I asked him if I can stay here tonight. He said, sure, I don’t care. It was weird but I stayed instead because it was really late (2.30 am). Next morning I just woke up and leave.
    This guy is cool about it but it was really awkward for me.
    Where do I go from here. I really want to keep in touch with him in the future. Should I text him to say how awkward it was for me and sorta apologize if I had imposed on him and that I came because I just wanted to hang out with him? HELP.

    November 17, 2016 at 12:16 am #117590

    No, if it was awkward for you then why apologize. What do you want out of him that you want to keep in touch? Met on tinder, went out a few times and got in bed. Now he knows how hard he will have to try for sex. Do you see a ‘relationship’ with him// or a fwb. Honestly. And what do you think he see’s..

    You really first have to evaluate what you want out of this guy. If its a fwb arrangement, then you dont have to think too hard here. If you want a relationship, sorry that boat sailed. Now you will never know if he is saying or doing (not doing) something just to bed you. Harsh but true

    November 17, 2016 at 8:48 pm #117773

    there is no need to apologize to him … if anything he should be apologizing to you for falling asleep and not even trying to have a good conversation with you … I’m not sure what part of his personality you find cool. I guess for now just go with the flow and see where it goes.