Everyone has that bad Ex

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Everyone has that bad Ex

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    cz1234
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    May 1, 2017 at 9:39 pm #135073
    Everyone has that bad Ex

    About three years ago I was dating this boy. We where on and off for about two years and during those two years he was abusive. He was very manipulative. He was seeing another girl and I behind our backs. He would constantly gas light my feelings, whenever I was uncomfortable in our relationship. He would tell me that the other girl he was seeing was in love with him and he didn’t know why she would be bringing him gifts and calling him etc. This girl was actually a friend of mine who did not know we where seeing each other. He was basically feeding her the same bs but just about me. Thankfully a mutual friend figured out what was happening and told us. I dumped him without hesitation. Basically I was broken for a long time after this situation. Now two months ago we started reconnecting, he apologized ( whatever). I had so much anxiety during our short lived “relationship” I ended things. Since then it feels like I am right back where I started. How do I move on from him?

    lovie4you
    lovie4you
    Participant
    May 1, 2017 at 11:13 pm #135074

    First of all, where did you meet this guy? I do suggest spend more time with your friends and get him out of your mind, and then I would spend more time at Church, library or the gym. They are really good prospects, but you are real to be careful, dating sites are OK but not the best. Just be careful who you date to make sure you know them very well before you give them any personal information.A lot of guys plays women for sex that is their nature personally I don’t do that I am a lot different than most men. I learn to respect women.


    cz1234
    Participant
    May 1, 2017 at 11:21 pm #135075

    We’ve known each other since we where pretty young. So i guess we met in school? Internet dating isn’t something I participate in. Him, my friend and I where in the same class.

    lovie4you
    lovie4you
    Participant
    May 1, 2017 at 11:56 pm #135077

    OK, I see what you mean then go for him just be careful. It is your choice if you don’t mind him sleeping with someone else than enjoy


    isabellahg
    Participant
    May 3, 2017 at 4:03 pm #135321

    Time is the best healer 🙂