Ex boyfriend driving me crazy!! Please help!!

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Ex boyfriend driving me crazy!! Please help!!

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    bamagirl0630
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    October 12, 2013 at 9:42 pm #41064
    Ex boyfriend driving me crazy!! Please help!!

    Hello,
    I need some advice about what to do about a crazy ex boyfriend. We dated for 10 months and I broke up with him because he told me I was not allowed to have male friends and every time I talked to a male, he would threaten them with bodily harm. We did eventually get back together but it only lasted a week before he then broke it off with me. We have been apart now for 10 months and he constantly stalks me. He follows me to my allergist and is often seen sitting in the parking lot watching me. He has turned up in many places that I am and he has now moved two streets down from me. I am in high school and he is in college. He had to drive his brother to school for two weeks and when he did that, he tried to run me over three times in the parking lot. The police won’t do anything because they say its just coincidence that he is where I am. So onto the other issue. He and I are obviously not friends on Facebook and I have him blocked from my page but he has now made it his life’s work to take all of my friends from me. He has friended as many as he can and he laughed about it to someone who he didn’t realize was my friend. He told them he intends on taking as many friends from me as he can to make me suffer. Now I do realize that they must not have been very good friends in the first place if he is able to take them away from me so Im better off without them. It doesn’t make it any less painful though. I have lost some really good friends to him now. Friends who he hated when we dated and even my guy friends that he once threatened. So here is my question. WHY? Why does a man who broke up with me stalk me and torture me? I didn’t want to lose him in the first place and wanted to marry him so this was not something I did to him. I loved him. If he wanted me then why did he break up with me just to stalk me and hurt me? Can anyone tell me why he is doing this and how I can get away from it? Please give me something concrete. I really need help so that I can have my life back without him in it.


    MissDuke31
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    October 13, 2013 at 2:02 am #41068

    HONEY IF HE IS DOING THESE THINGS THEN HE IS BEING MUNIPLITIVE AND CONTROLLING AND YOU DON’T DISERVE THAT YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT. PLUS IF HE IS STALKING YOU THEN YOU NEED TO NOTIFY THE POLICE. WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT, HE REALLY DOES NOT WANT YOU HE IS JUST OBSESSED WITH YOU AND JUST DOES NOT WANT TO SEE YOU WITH ANYONE ELSE AND THAT IS NOT LOVE.


    sexxybunny
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    October 16, 2013 at 5:01 am #41251

    Cheer up lady. I think he is insane. Know what? A person like him do not deserve any drop of your tears so step out from your closet and enjoy. Have fun with your remaining friends and befriend to others. Do not depend your life unto him. Anyway it’s not your lost, it’s his lost.

    gbSWFBUIo
    gbSWFBUIo
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    October 16, 2013 at 10:33 am #41279

    This guys sounds DANGEROUS. You need to get a laywer and get a restraining order. Change your routines up so he can’t just “be” where you are at and travel with friends and family. Take video and pictures if he threatens or harms you. You need evidence to stop the guy. This sounds pretty scary.

    ghostbusterbill
    ghostbusterbill
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    October 16, 2013 at 10:35 am #41287

    HONEY IF HE IS DOING THESE THINGS THEN HE IS BEING MUNIPLITIVE AND CONTROLLING AND YOU DON’T DISERVE THAT YOU ARE WORTH MORE THAN THAT. PLUS IF HE IS STALKING YOU THEN YOU NEED TO NOTIFY THE POLICE. WHEN IT COMES DOWN TO IT, HE REALLY DOES NOT WANT YOU HE IS JUST OBSESSED WITH YOU AND JUST DOES NOT WANT TO SEE YOU WITH ANYONE ELSE AND THAT IS NOT LOVE.

    ^^ couldn’t have said it better myself!

    candydude
    candydude
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    October 16, 2013 at 10:37 am #41285

    Agree with gb, get a restraining order on this whacko.


    Confusedguy81
    Participant
    October 16, 2013 at 8:51 pm #41349

    put your foot down or just get a restraining order.


    bamagirl0630
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    October 19, 2013 at 8:30 pm #41461

    Thank you everyone for your advice. I wish I could file a restraining order but we already talked to the police and they said there isn’t enough evidence to support a restraining order. I guess they are waiting for him to kill me. It really does worry me that he is going to hurt me. I guess we’ll have to wait and see. In the mean time my parents are looking for a new home so that we can move to get away from him.