Ex Gf of 3 years left, then contacted me?

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Ex Gf of 3 years left, then contacted me?

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    cchance11
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    September 2, 2017 at 5:48 pm #148041
    Ex Gf of 3 years left, then contacted me?

    We were together 3 years. She broke up with me because I took her for granted and got complacent in the last half year. I was selfish. I made the mistake of thinking she would always be there. Sometimes I talked condensending to her and just chose what I wanted to do over her suggestions and she had had enough.

    I begged and pleaded but then went hardcore No contact. A month later..

    She texted me a week ago “Hey. I wanted to apologize to you and any ill feelings you might have towards me. I should have given you more of a chance to talk and I’m sorry. I hope you have a good senior year and you make the best of It”
    I responded a day later “Hey, thanks for reaching out. There are no ill feelings because I know I did some hurtful things too. I need to apologize as well because I know I was not the best partner and I now recognize where I failed. I did not mean to hurt you in the ways that I did. Hope everything is going good.”

    Was this a good response if I want to rekindle?


    Patman
    Participant
    September 2, 2017 at 7:06 pm #148043

    That’s a great response, you should keep it going and ask her how she’s been and what’s happened since you last spoke, tell her you missed talking to her.

    druw33
    druw33
    Participant
    September 2, 2017 at 9:39 pm #148049

    it appears she is checking on your wellbeing. I wouldn’t think to much into it, I have an ex that will unblock me to check on me, get my reply and block me again smh…