Ex girlfriend as friends

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Ex girlfriend as friends

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  • zuzubots
    Participant
    April 18, 2017 at 8:16 pm #133606
    Ex girlfriend as friends

    I met a beautiful woman who is perfect for me. I’m 60 she is 50. She’s a widow whose husband died 5 years ago. I’ve been divorced for over 27 years. She met her late husband when she was a teen, and I was with my ex-wife since I was 17. However since her husband has died she has been in depression and has dated no one. On the other hand since my divorce I’ve dated many women but have remained close friends with only two of them. The relationship I have with these two ex’s is strictly platonic and absolutely nothing more, The one ex I broke up with 22 years ago and the other 10 years ago.
    My new girlfriend and I are madly in love and I’m planning to marry her. The problem is that she’s giving me an ultimatum to either end my relationship with these two ex’s or end our relationship. She wants to marry me and treats me like a king. I see her as my future but I am afraid of losing two of my closest friends. I tried ending the friendships but am having a difficult time dealing with it.


    Vicarstar
    Participant
    April 20, 2017 at 12:16 am #133751

    It’s no fair for your new girlfriend, and not worth to do this.