Extreme mixed signals from a deaf guy

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Extreme mixed signals from a deaf guy

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    angiskates
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    January 16, 2013 at 1:58 am #20753
    Extreme mixed signals from a deaf guy

    I have known this deaf guy for 30 yrs. we went to a deaf boarding school together that’s how I knew him but over the years I seen him about 10 times and every time we see each other we had the hots for each other but never got together til now . We met on Facebook after learning we both are single … Well here the tricky part he deaf but cannot hear , I’m deaf but I can hear some and speaks very well ..so no phone calls Skype and text is all that we can do he also lives in Arizona and I live in okc and we have texted all day and night as well as Skype for 5 weeks now and the first 3 weeks he constantly texting flirting lots of kisses and hugs texting style and sending pictures and then he send me a goodnight I love you and I was like yes I feel the same way and he even talk about getting married with our parents watching in Hawaii so naturally I love you were a daily thing for us … Stay with me here I know this is long … 1 week ago everything was great until I ask him if this is real the way he feels or if he is playing me .. And I got the shock of my life he responded with … Whoa whoa whoa u need to slow down fast i don’t do fast relationship thingy and I’m like huh? Then why did u say I love you and talk marriage for .. He said when I say I love you I say that to all my friends as a friendship gesture and there nothing wrong with talking about marriage in general . He said we need to start at bottom snail way in deaf term meaning very slow . After that conversation he stop texting me but text me once a day and the spark is gone but he said he still wants to date but very slowly and I’m like well we kinda are going slow becuz we live in different states so we continue to communicate then out of the blue he text me and ask me this questions ” how would u feel if I date someone else ” ? I was stunned and responded that if that’s the case I’m not going to wait for you and I ask why he ask and he said becuz he is curious and I ask him if he met someone and he said know which I think is a lie .. I’m really heartbroken I was really into him . What do you think about this. ?! Help I like inputs and advice


    angiskates
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    January 16, 2013 at 2:00 am #20754

    I have known this deaf guy for 30 yrs. we went to a deaf boarding school together that’s how I knew him but over the years I seen him about 10 times and every time we see each other we had the hots for each other but never got together til now . We met on Facebook after learning we both are single … Well here the tricky part he deaf but cannot hear , I’m deaf but I can hear some and speaks very well ..so no phone calls Skype and text is all that we can do he also lives in Arizona and I live in okc and we have texted all day and night as well as Skype for 5 weeks now and the first 3 weeks he constantly texting flirting lots of kisses and hugs texting style and sending pictures and then he send me a goodnight I love you and I was like yes I feel the same way and he even talk about getting married with our parents watching in Hawaii so naturally I love you were a daily thing for us … Stay with me here I know this is long … 1 week ago everything was great until I ask him if this is real the way he feels or if he is playing me .. And I got the shock of my life he responded with … Whoa whoa whoa u need to slow down fast i don’t do fast relationship thingy and I’m like huh? Then why did u say I love you and talk marriage for .. He said when I say I love you I say that to all my friends as a friendship gesture and there nothing wrong with talking about marriage in general . He said we need to start at bottom snail way in deaf term meaning very slow . After that conversation he stop texting me but text me once a day and the spark is gone but he said he still wants to date but very slowly and I’m like well we kinda are going slow becuz we live in different states so we continue to communicate then out of the blue he text me and ask me this questions ” how would u feel if I date someone else ” ? I was stunned and responded that if that’s the case I’m not going to wait for you and I ask why he ask and he said becuz he is curious and I ask him if he met someone and he said no which I think is a lie .. I’m really heartbroken I was really into him . What do you think about this. ?! Help I like inputs and advice


    angiskates
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    January 16, 2013 at 2:01 am #20755

    Sorry I send twice .. Lol