Falling in love with an escort

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Falling in love with an escort

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    markestevez73
    markestevez73
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    April 2, 2015 at 6:30 pm #76605
    Falling in love with an escort

    Hello. My name is Mark. I would start by saying I am not an English speaker so I apologize if the grammar is not perfect. I am 25 yr old. I never been in a relationship. I think I am gay inside but I don’t like everyone to know. I decided to contact male escorts multiple times. Usually after having sex I don’t feel anything. However, this last escort I have met was so different. The 1st time I met him. I felt different. We had oral masturbation and oral sex. After the session, I got home and I keep on thinking about him.

    markestevez73
    markestevez73
    Participant
    April 2, 2015 at 6:32 pm #76606

    Continuation……

    After a week, we had 2nd meeting. We were laying on his bed. I hugged him for 30 minutes while he was touching my hand, gave him his money after the session. I sent him a message when I got home. I asked him how he feels about me. He told me that I am special and different from his other clients. He told me also that he doesn’t kiss nor hug other clients, he only does it to me. He gives other clients erotic massage. I asked him if he only wants money from me, his answer is, its not all about the money. It is the affection you have for me and I have for you. If you want you can come back next time and do not give me money. I only do this job because I need to pay the bills. He invited me to eat outside or watch movie. I do not know what to do. This is my first time feeling this. I have never fall in love before. I am scared to get hurt. Should I continue pursuing this guy or better stop now. I am hoping to get an advice from you guys…

    Thank you,
    Mark


    JohnSomebody
    Participant
    April 4, 2015 at 7:00 pm #76688

    My question to you is ….say for instance if he shares the same feelings as you but wants to continue escorting…do you think you would feel comfortable with sharing him with other clients whom more than likely obtain much more sexually than you do because you are not that experienced?? Also, put the “love thing” away for now and if I can be honest…since you want to have a connection with this guy…just for now put your focus on establishing a solid friendship with him and see how this develops before letting love rule you. Best Wishes!!!

    markestevez73
    markestevez73
    Participant
    April 6, 2015 at 8:41 am #76704

    Hello John. Thank you for taking your time to give me an advice. I really appreciate it. I think you are right. Just put away love. I will do my best to make it as a friend relationship. I just met this guy and I do not know all about him. I will just go to the flow. Let us see how it will go. =) Thanks again John. Take care and have a good day.


    JohnSomebody
    Participant
    April 7, 2015 at 5:56 pm #76824

    Your welcome Mark…take care…


    ramot2000
    Participant
    April 26, 2015 at 4:23 am #77892

    Dangerous game…. It happened to me we went out but too hard to handle it


    Richie
    Participant
    June 22, 2015 at 9:22 am #81414

    SCARY to me to read this. About to post questions along a similar line that will share my experiences. I would say pursue it, but with limited expectations cause it can hurt, and hurt BAD when things fall apart.


    Quincyz
    Participant
    July 8, 2015 at 8:42 pm #82419

    Sorry to be blunt, Mark, but it sounds like he is playing with your emotions. I can’t tell you how many times I’ve heard similar stories which ended in disappointment.