Feeling confused

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Feeling confused

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    Deedee
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    May 15, 2014 at 10:24 am #52929
    Feeling confused

    Hi around 2 months ago I ment this guy on an online dating sight, we went on a first date to meet and it went really well so we have been on another 5 dates I have told him that I like him and he said that he likes me to, on our last date he invited me to stay the night so I did. The next morning he was a little distant towards me and I asked him about it he just said he was tired. I just messages him tonight and asked him if he can see this thing between us going somewhere or am I just being hopeful. How long should I wait to see if he texts me and if he doesn’t reply I’m guessing he doesn’t want anything to do with me?? I’m confused on what I should do as this is my first propped relationship


    Anonymous
    May 15, 2014 at 6:47 pm #52969

    Just wait for a week or so, if he don’t reply then let him go maybe he have some issues he need to deal with, never blame yourself if he doesn’t call don’t bother yourself about him, maybe he is just a total jerk.


    emkay2
    Participant
    May 16, 2014 at 5:50 pm #53075

    I think you guys moved a bit fast. While the temptation was there, it seems that now there is less to “experience” (not saying anything happened, but it was just something other then a dinner date) and you two are still fairly new to each other. That might have freaked him out. Then asking if its going anywhere might have sent him running for the hills thinking that its moving even faster.


    jennaj25
    Participant
    May 22, 2014 at 10:28 am #53535

    I am in a very similar situation with a guy I meant online too. Guys seem to get distant once you try to put a title on it. It is so frustrating. I would just give him space. Meantime keep your options open as well.