Feeling Lost ……HELP !!! What should I do ?

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Feeling Lost ……HELP !!! What should I do ?

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    sofia2891
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    November 18, 2015 at 9:30 am #88667
    Feeling Lost ……HELP !!! What should I do ?

    I have been dating this guy for almost 2 months now things went kind of fast he told me he loved me and calls me baby it’s ok I don’t mind but the passed few days he’s been acting kind of different I don’t know what this means? Like yesterday we texted during the day then he did not answer my text till about 7 pm at night I don’t mind him not texting me but he answered ”sorry baby I could not find my phone I’m leaving right now talk to you later love u xxx ” to me that was like ok he was busy he works 3 hours away and was driving down last night then he texted me late saying ” Hey I just got to my parents going to talk with them a bit then Im going to bed love you xxxx we will talk tomorrow ” I then answered ok non problem are you sure your ok ur acting different ? he said ” I know baby Im really sorry don’t worry about it ” so this morning I wake up and he sent me a text saying wishing you a great day at work love you a lot beautiful should I answer him or not what do I do ?

    • This topic was modified 2 years ago by  sofia2891.

    morten
    Participant
    November 19, 2015 at 8:48 am #88721

    Yes, be careful about how you respond. Guys often act very fast in new relationships then pull away when a girl shows interest. He’s obviously still interested right now so there’s no point ignoring him. Just keep the conversation light as always. He may be assessing at this point whether he wants to take things further. This has happened to me recently and he disappeared when I came on too strong so just don’t ask him what’s wrong or anything that makes you sound need or he’ll back off and not feel comfortable contacting you. Please be careful with guys who come on very strong in the beginning, they often thing they’re in love before they’ve really had time to get to know you. Good luck


    zoey
    Participant
    November 20, 2015 at 12:10 am #88786

    The best thing is open communication, patience, and most of all, following your gut. I would definitely text him back, just be aware as you proceed that something may be up. If you two are good for each other, keep it going. It will sort it’s self out if you listen to him and also your instincts.


    itsmyturn
    Participant
    November 23, 2015 at 6:39 pm #88901

    Yes. Text him back.
    See how things go and how you feel with his response.


    Sugarlessgirl
    Participant
    November 25, 2015 at 10:55 pm #89008

    I don’t think you should ever ignore him so just text him back. You could ask him in person what’s wrong if you’re very concerned.