Fiancé (boyfriend of 7 years) caught using Snapchat porn

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Fiancé (boyfriend of 7 years) caught using Snapchat porn

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    KS4576
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    September 11, 2017 at 4:30 pm #148708
    Fiancé (boyfriend of 7 years) caught using Snapchat porn

    Here’s some background. I have been dating this guy for almost 7 years. We got engaged in April of 2016. A couple years into dating I found that he was talking to girls on Tinder. I talk to him about it and he said he liked the attention. We had a HUGE discussion on it. A couple years later I found that he was talking to some girl. I can’t remember who she was exactly and what she was saying to her but it wasn’t right and I called him out on it. He also lied to me telling me it was one of his friends girlfriends friend. I followed up on that and flat out asked the friend if his girlfriend had a friend with that name. And she didn’t. So he lied. Then yesterday. I found 3 videos of him jacking off. Mind you. This was at his parents house where we were both staying that weekend. I was asleep upstairs. I was wondering who he sent them to so I scoped around to find that he was chatting with some girl on Snapchat. Saying really dirty stuff. What do I do? I’m at a loss. I really do love him.


    Amy98
    Participant
    September 12, 2017 at 4:52 am #148720

    My advice is to get out of this relationship before you get married. Seriously. The fact that he ignores your wishes and outright lies to you(when he already knows you dont condone such behaviour) is serious. Imagine if this happened after you were married maybe had a kid. What would you do then? The fact that he lies repeatedly about serious issues is really bad. The fact that he dares talk to and jack off to other girls(if it was just porn it would be understandable but this is bad) when he has a fiance is just messed up. If there is no trust what can you expect from a relationship. You deserve to feel special. You deserve to be the ONLY one. I hope you take my advice. I would hate for you to be stuck in a trust less relationship.


    bobalover4
    Participant
    September 12, 2017 at 11:57 pm #148831

    Yeah I don’t think you should stay with him. He keeps cheating and then lying about it. That isn’t a good sign especially since you guys are thinking about getting married. I’m so sorry because I know how much it must hurt, but you deserve someone who will do right by you and treat you the way you want and deserve to be treated.


    brianna
    Participant
    September 13, 2017 at 10:26 am #148874

    Dont let him treat you like an optin, lying is fine if he apologizes ad doesnt do it again, but the snapchat thing? that doesnt show loyalty