First Date Hook-up Hotness Turned 86 Weirdness

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First Date Hook-up Hotness Turned 86 Weirdness

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    kissing-school
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    February 20, 2013 at 4:42 pm #23250
    First Date Hook-up Hotness Turned 86 Weirdness

    i went on my first internet date in ages last night — to some pretty hilarious results. first, she was actually better looking than her photos, which is a rare find. then we had a good time talking (a couple drinks over a couple hours) and i asked if she wanted to go someplace else. she lived nearby, so we head back to her place. we kissed once outside the bar en route, but it was cold, so we didnt really linger. at her place, she pours us both a drink, shows me a photo of Peewee Herman posing next to Dolly Parton, which obviously raises her even higher in my esteem. then she suddenly asks me to leave. booze still on the counter. no one has had a drop. i’ve been in her apartment for all of 3 minutes. now, i’m three whiskeys in (which is a fair amount for me), so god knows what i might have said. I’m surprised that things took this sudden turn, so i ask if i offended her or said something. she says, look, i’d totally go out with you again, but you have to leave now. she was stern and apparently angry. on my walk to the train, i text her about the weirdness of the outro, and she writes back \\\”Yeah. Whoops. I liked kissing you, but i couldn’t tell if you were into me or sizing me up for your new woman suit.”

    So questions
    A: is she hilarious or nuts?
    B: if A = hilarious, how to proceed? text ASAP, wait a few days, stand outside her apartment in a ski-mask and yell “SURPRISE! ITS OUR SECOND DATE!!”
    C: if the response is meant to be funny. anyone have a text response better than “baby, don’t make me choose!”


    Kurtis
    Participant
    February 20, 2013 at 5:47 pm #23258

    hahahahaah. WHAT? now this is quality.

    Run, run real fast man.

    To answer: A) she’s nuts


    ItsRobA
    Participant
    March 15, 2013 at 12:37 am #25991

    Hilarious, but definitely doesn’t sound mentally stable enough for relationship material at the moment.


    slobeachboy
    Participant
    March 15, 2013 at 12:38 pm #26006

    The fact that this girl suddenly asked you to leave, in and of itself, does not necessarily mean she is some kind of psycho. She could have just suddenly got her period or felt a bad case of diarrhea coming on. Maybe she has IBS. In any case, being a girl, she probably would have been too embarrassed to tell you this on the phone so she made a joke instead to cover. Of course she could also indeed be a basket case but there is no way to tell simply from what you’ve told us.
    On the other hand when I was in a similar situation in my youth there was no question that the girl was nuts. To make a long story short; this drop dead gorgeous girl I had just recently met invited me to her house, and although she seemed a little off from the start I just couldn’t pass up the opportunity to be with her. Anyway not long after we got to her house she strips down to her underwear right there in front of me to change outfits. Then she gets a phone call from a friend and she sits down right across from me and talks for a bout 15 minute. During the call they were talking about her friends upcomming tripto Mexico so when the call finished I said, “so your friend is going to Mexico”? At that point she totally freaked out and accused me of listening to her conversation ( Duh, I was 3 feet away the whole time). That’s when I knew I was dealing with a grade A certified psycho and I started looking for an excuse to leave before I ended up buried in her back yard.

    TorryTrue
    TorryTrue
    Participant
    March 18, 2013 at 6:43 pm #26166

    That’s pretty awkward and silly of her. No need to boot you out like that without explaining