First date ideas? (hear me out)

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First date ideas? (hear me out)

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    foothorski27
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    April 9, 2018 at 7:39 am #169922
    First date ideas? (hear me out)

    Okay, so I’m a 20 year old guy and I just got asked out by a GIRL.

    I haven’t dated for a long time so I’m pretty rusty at this.

    We met a few months ago at a school event and she contacted me out of nowhere and after a few weeks of chatting she asked me out. We still don’t know where we are going for the date.

    I don’t know her very well so I’m really worried that if we just went out for a dinner we’re gonna have nothing to talk about :/

    What would you guys suggest for our first date? Should it be super romantic? Or maybe we should keep it chill to get to know each other more?

    • This topic was modified 2 months, 1 week ago by  foothorski27.

    tomfester
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    April 9, 2018 at 11:51 am #169927

    Hey, first dates are always stressfull, i feel you! but in my opinion a first date should really be to get to know eachother a bit better. nothing to fancy nothing to romantic. i’ve been on many first dates, what i like to do is just take her out for some drinks. Go to a cosy bar and try to get to know eachother. if there is chemistry there will always be something to talk about so don’t worry about awkward silence.

    You shouldn’t be overthinking on this one, she asked YOU out, so she’s definitely interested in you. she wants to get to know you better, so she will definitely ask a lot of questions.

    Just don’t worry about it too much, it’s your first date with her. if you stress too much about the fact that there will be nothing to talk about. Chances are it might happen. So dont worry, be cool, be yourself! and just have a nice time together

    Cheers
    Tom


    Chili_Bean101
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    April 9, 2018 at 8:40 pm #169955

    Hey, it you are having troubles finding an idea that isn’t too romantic, you could honestly just go out to the park and swing or walk a trail if the have it. It can actually be a really great way to get to know someone. Start out with the simple questions, obviously, depending on how well you know the person you can decide what is an appropriate question to ask her. She is totally into you like @tomfester stated. So don’t worry, dress casual and find a color that makes YOU feel confident. She may even compliment you on it because your body language will come across as more confident. Dress to impress, but don’t over do it. Just for the fun of it, take some snacks or extra cash in case you want to offer her food. Women love a man who’ll show her good convo and then proceed to feed her (convos before eating can help in case you’re like me and don’t talk a lot out of politeness while you’re eating). I hope it goes well for you!