First date with a girl that lives an hour away – need advice!

DATING ADVICE FORUM

First date with a girl that lives an hour away – need advice!

    Author
    Comments
  • Hayley Matthews Hayley Matthews
    DatingAdvice.com
    October 10, 2017 at 12:58 pm FORUM ANNOUNCEMENT

    Hey DatingAdvice.com forum readers! Just a quick heads up that a few dating sites are offering a FREE trial to DatingAdvice forum readers. Try it now and meet local singles in just a few minutes! Here are the sites:

    Site Who You'll Meet Today's Deal
    Match.com Casual dating for ages 18-65 Get FREE access
    Elite Singles Educated professionals 25 and older Get FREE access
    AFF.com Hookups, casual encounters Get FREE access

    What are you waiting for? One mouse click could be all that stands between you and your next romance!


    dsprimal
    Participant
    December 29, 2014 at 11:37 pm #69715
    First date with a girl that lives an hour away – need advice!

    Hey everyone,

    So i’m going out with this girl next weekend and i’m planning things out. We both initially agreed to meeting in a town midway of where we both live since were about 45 min apart. I googled restaurants and things to do in that town and it sucks. But theres a town 15 min away from the town we chose that i’m more familiar with and can guarantee a good time. But that would be 15+ minutes further of a drive for her cause that town is closer to me.

    I thought it all over and i’m not gonna make the girl drive further for me. So heres my options.

    -Have her meet me in the town we initially agreed on and just go to that one single good restaurant I found?

    -Tell her that theres a town 15 min further of a drive for her thats better?

    -Drive the full 45 min and pick her up at her house and then have her choose a place to eat since its in her area? If so, should I plan everything by googling places in her area and not have her worry about anything?


    dsprimal
    Participant
    December 30, 2014 at 4:12 pm #69745

    THIS FORUM SUCKS HELLOOOO

    peterhale221
    peterhale221
    Participant
    December 31, 2014 at 11:19 am #69760

    I guess you should proceed


    Expat
    Participant
    January 1, 2015 at 12:55 am #69771

    Driving 45 minutes is nothing. I used to drive 45 mins to work every day. Used to drive 30 mins just to get to the bar I liked on weekends. I don’t know why it’s a big deal to you.


    Mark
    Participant
    January 3, 2015 at 1:28 am #69821

    For a first date I would recommend you be chivalrous and either pick her up or meet in the same area. First few dates are about impressions and infatuations. Sacrifice on your part will make a better impression.