First time I've been single in eleven years..  help!


First time I've been single in eleven years.. help!

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    December 11, 2017 at 8:25 pm #159769
    First time I've been single in eleven years.. help!

    I recently split from my long term boyfriend. One of my friends from work- who has always aggressively flirted with me- went to drinks with me last week. We never text each other but when we see each other the sexual tension is real, so when I ran into him a couple of weeks ago we made plans. So drinks happen and at end of the night he asks if I want to go outside. That’s where we proceed to make out, he felt me up a little but it really didn’t go far. After about 15 minutes he stops and tells me he doesn’t want to be my first after my break up. I was drunk and didn’t push it any further. The next morning left me feeling utterly confused. Two days later I ask him out for coffee, which he agrees to. The day of the date i texted to confirm, he messages back with an enthusiastic yes. Twenty minutes later he asks for rain check, saying he forgot he’s helping a friend move. Is this total bullshit? I’m not good at playing games and do not understand this behavior.

    December 12, 2017 at 11:54 am #159828

    That does sound quite fishy to me to say yes and then ask for a rain check 20 minutes later. I would let it go and if he’s interested, he will reschedule something with you. If not, he was definitely playing games.